THE SMELL OF SEX
Hair is not essential for life but its
presence is important to many people’s happiness and self esteem. In
addition it serves as a secondary sexual characteristic in humans, so its
presence and distribution helps distinguish the sexes. It has another
important property in sex. It retains moisture and smells, thus acting as a
powerful aphrodisiac by increasing and maintaining sexual desire.
Women have chosen to remove this vital
sexually distinguishing characteristic and with it remove the scent for
which it is designed to accent and preserve.
Cultural changes and concerns about hygiene have led us to remove this
powerful natural occurring aphrodisiac, one of the most powerful forces in
Using my own experience, I asked a
select group of men, if the they purposely avoided washing their hand
following an evening of intense foreplay. ALL admitted they had
purposely refrained from washing their hand, and enjoyed the aroma for
I am reminded of my first sexual
experience. I was 14 and she was 15, neither of us knew much about hygiene
and the smell was intense, that’s the thing I remember the most. She
introduced me into the wonderful world of sex and the smell was absolutely
Now, with my age, I don't miss the sexual act itself
as much as I miss the “game”. The flirting, the fantasy the smell. Those subtle
sexual undercurrents that flow between men and women. That amorous glance
“across a crowded room”. But most of all I miss the power, the pleasure, and the
promise of an erotically inspired, naturally occurring, hard, throbbing dick.
Viagra...The revenge of the
impotent: Revenge for all those faked orgasms. Now they will never know if its
real or if its pharmaceutical.
most erotic sexual arrangement is a three way, more specifically two males
with one female. If the number is increased there is a tendency to pair
off. There is a basic human nature reason for this. Men are naturally
voyeurs and females are naturally exhibitionists this is demonstrated
vividly by men’s voyeuristic desire to view pornography and the little if
any interest women have for it. I have never known a women that had more
than a casual curious interest in it and I have never known a man who
honestly didn’t have an intense interest in it. I am sure some will deny it
however, I think it is true in all men.
three way arrangement two men on woman allows the woman to display a full
exhibitionistic range and the male to have a great view of all the
activity. There is another interesting sidelight to this because it
illustrates why women have this insatiable urge to shop and enhance their
beauty and further illustrates why men have little interest in shopping but
enjoy looking at women.
THE EVOLUTION OF
SEX AND SMELL
Sexual activity in lower
animals (lower than humans) is controlled entirely by the sense of smell. It
is mediated through pheromones. Pheromones are chemicals that trigger a
natural behavioral response in other members of the same species. Sex
is engaged in for only one reason, reproduction. Pheromones
are like hormones, hormones carry information from one organ of the body to
another organ of the body and travel by way of the bloodstream. Pheromones
carry information from one member of a species to another and the
information travels through the atmosphere.
In some animals there is a special
organ located high in the nasal septum called the vasonasal organ (VNO) of
Jacobson, this organ is especially designed for sex. Humans anatomically
have a VNO, but there is some controversy about whether it is functional or
Sexual smell in humans is created by
the action of bacteria on the secretions of the apocrine sweat glands
located in the armpit and genitalia of both sexes. The secretions themselves
are odorless the action of the bacteria on the secretions produce the
Insects make the best use of
pheromones. Bees for instance have certain pheromones for locating hives,
locating flowers with the best nectar, sending the information to other
bee’s and back to the hive. That’s why flowers smell. They also have
pheromones for danger and reproduction.
Lower animals below humans do not
engage in casual sex. Sex is engagent only for one reason, reproduction. The
urge is entirely driven by smell, they care little about appearances.
Unfortunately because of self imposed
cultural and hygienic biases we have chosen to deny ourselves not only the
pleasures our nose can provide but much of the information it has to offer.
I am reminded of the first time I visited Europe years ago. You could smell
the people and the different cultures. This may still be possible in some
areas I suppose, but not like it used to be. Globalization and concerns for
cleanliness has changed everyone.
no wonder children and adults are so confused about sex. This is because
they get so many conflicting messages about what they see and what
they are told. “Don’t touch yourself”, “Don’t look up little girl’s
dresses”, etc. Then after you have learned about how bad this type of behavior
is from your parents and teachers you learn from other children that your
parents are actually “doing it” while you have been told not to even think
about it. This was a real surprise for me and it took me along time to even
believe it. At this phase of your life you tend to believe as absolute fact
anything your teachers or adults tell you.
meantime you are seeing all these provocative depictions of sex and how
great it is depicted overtly in television, movies and various
publications. It’s a wonder any of us ever turn out normal.
illustrate the innocence of childhood I am reminded of an incident about 45
years ago when my oldest son was in the 1st or 2nd
grade. We were sitting at the dinner table and out of the blue he loudly
blurted out “Fuck”. My wife and I were completely stunned. I immediately
took him aside and told him that he was never to use that word again and
furthermore it wasn’t even a word. I tried not to make too big of a deal
about it but at the same time I wanted to make it clear that he was not to
use that word in any way.
2 or 3 weeks later he came up to me and said “Daddy, you know that word” a
kid from school knows a third grader that’s “DONE IT”
puritans were probably the horniest and sexiest people in the world because
they were not allowed to see anything or discuss anything related to sex.
When a subject is openly discussed and there is no mystery it loses some
of its appeals. And the mystique of sex disappears. There is something to
be said for keeping some things secret.
kids now there seems to be no secrets. Girls barely keep there pubic area
covered. In fact it doesn’t make much difference anymore because they
shave it and there is not much to look at anyway.
difficult to write about yourself, your thoughts and your activities without
occasional hyperboli. I call it poetic license. I like to quote
that great philosopher Muhammad Ali when he said “It ain’t braggin' if you done
I have always have been interested in
all types of sex but the only sex I could not understand was Pedophilia.
I just couldn’t grasp it. One day several years ago I was on my way to
Dallas and listening to NPR. The program was discussing various types
of sexuality and the subject of pedophilia came out. An unidentified
man called in and identified himself as a pedophile. He said he wanted
to explain pedophilia as he saw it. What he said made a lot of sense
and I had never heard or read about it before. He said it all was strictly a
matter of power, domination and submission. That explained everything.
Actually all sex has its basis in domination and submission. This goes
from all types and all extremes. The sexual act itself is an
illustration of domination and submission with the male classically being
dominant and the female being more submissive. This is characterized
essentially by the penis penetrating the female which is a classic example
of submission and domination. The extreme is sadism and masochism
where individuals like to inflict pain and others like to be dominated and